REAL playful hot couple needs YOU! **UPDATE** READ BELOW Vidor swingers
We are a VERY passionate, sensual, and romantic couple who are responsible and respectful- although
we do have a wild side, and are not afraid to show it!We are a FULL swap couple and prefer full swap,
but with the right couple, might also dabble in soft swap.
We are soulmates to the end and very much
in love. Pass us by and you just might miss the time of a lifetime. Friendships are also a very welcome
We are a happily married couple (11 years- 13 years together) who use the lifestyle as an outlet
for stimulating our sex lives. Admittedly, this is a long profile, but if you take the time to read
it, you will learn a great deal about us and what we're looking for.
This will save us all a lot of
time in the long run-SO PLEASE READ IT. We are not hardcore swingers- but we certainly are not newbies.
We tried some clubs closer to home- and are not against the group thing, but prefer the 3 or 4-some
We approach the lifestyle as a sexual vacation. It's not something we do every day (or weekend
for that matter as we hav 2 children, but we keep returning to it the same way you keep going back
to that favorite vacation spot where you always had a good time and rekindle the friendships you made
over the years.
Our primary goal is to establish a friendship with a couple that shares our values
(socially and sexually). After we've established a social rapport, we'll explore the sexual aspects.
We are interested in friendships first although a sex only relationship is kinda erotic! Our objective
is to strike a harmony with both friends and sex.
We'd describe ourselves as your normal couple, but
not narrow-minded. We have a curious side (doesn't everyone); She is DEFINATELY Bi- He is DEFINATELY
We're sexually outgoing and prefer group play (both couples - same room). Our limitations
are anything you can do within the confines of sexual enjoyment that does not constitute pain or wierd
We are both sugically safe, and D/D free. Condoms are used if requested, and we certainly
adhere to safe sex. A little bit about us; Rich works for a surgical company based in CA, and Wendy
is a lucky stay at home mom!!! We live about 25 minutes North of Milwaukee.
Our house is not huge-
(1500 sq. feet) but it is home, and we own it- after all, how much can you really do on one income
these days, even if it is a good job.
But we are proud of what we have, and if you are the kind of
people who like to brag about how much money you have or your 3 houses in the tropics, we are not for
We accept people for who they are, not what they have. We have a fully stocked bar and "entertaining
room" in our basement where we can go for secluded fun if need be. We're considered attractive by conventional
standards, but we're not vain enough to say so ourselves.
While not models, we're both easy on the
eyes and reasonably height/weight proportionate (yeah, we could probably exercise more- and we both
have some weight to lose, but we are NOT huge by any means.
). The best way to describe us is to say
we're built more for comfort rather than speed). We don't smoke, but don't discriminate against those
We don't allow smoking in our home (outside is OK), but other than that we don't have a problem
with it. Neither of us drink very much, but we do enjoy wine with good food and we keep a stocked bar
We go to bars to socialize more than to drink. We are a pretty good balance of liberal
and conservative. We are open-minded socially and sexually. We consider ourselves non-judgmental, but
we have discriminating tastes (is that a dichotomy?).
We are not judgemental, and are open to meeting
women and couples of all races, creeds, and religions. Our conservative side is probably reflected
in our work ethic values.
We think you don't get anything for nothing. You get what you pay/work for.
We've met many couples so far with varying results. Our best experiences have been when we met and
got to know each other for a while, then jumped right into sex! LOL.
If you're looking to get naked
at our first meeting, we are certainly open to that, although it is not a given (we certainly would
like it though!! After all- we have overactive sex drives.
..LOL). However, we have waited til the second
meeting as well ;)(and were glad we did in those cases). We have a good sense of humor and would be
considered very sociable.
We like to go out with other couples and females and let it all hang out
(well not literally if its in a public place! lol) One of our primary goals is to find a couple (or
two or three or four) to attend concerts, plays, museum exhibits and various other cultural events
(some not so cultural too).
We're not highbrow and we have a wide spectrum of interests. Eventually
we'd like to find a compatible couple for some short trips (weekends to start). We dislike obnoxious
fall down drunk party animals, but still enjoy a good time (and certainly appreciate a woman with a
good buzz stripping on our bar!).
We're not athletes or fitness nuts, but we're not couch potatoes
either. We are well groomed and while we're not fashion plates or GQ material, we don't go for the
grunge or Goth look.
The bottom line: We are a cultured convivial couple with a myriad of interests
who wants to meet another couple for socializing and exploring erotic adventures. We are looking for
a couple whose idea of a fun night would be to share a social experience (concert, play, bowling, dinner
and a movie) and then top the night off with a sensual one (group play).
If you don't look like a model,
that's OK, but we draw the line at folks who don't practice good hygiene and grooming. We are your
normal average couple, and expect at least that in our play partners.
We're open to trying almost anything
as long as everyone is comfortable and we keep respect as our guiding principle. Our favorite is group
play where we swap, and everyone gets a chance to be the center of attention as well.
We'd expect to
have a serious and candid discussion about our mutual expectations and limits before we proceed to
We think the conversation would be stimulating and provide a sense of assurance we will
all get what we want. You should be squeaky-clean hygienically. We prefer a couple that is geographically
close to us (within 100 miles.
) and near our age (sorry no one over 50-that would be like sex with
our parents...yeeeech!!!) We hope this is enough to entice you to contact us. While we're flattered
to get "winks" or one word intro's(we get a lot of them), we don't reply to them.
We only reply to
responses that go into detail about who you are and what you want (you don't have to be as detailed
as this profile, but if you only write a couple of words telling us you liked our profile- you probably
won't hear back from us - unless of course you look like fitness models)LOL We not interested in being
in anyone's network or cyber sex of any kind.
Right now we are looking for the real deal. Skin on skin-
is that too forward??? We are only looking for couples and single females. Single males are automatically
filtered out and never reach our inbox.
It always amuses us that single guys cannot read and think
that if they email us they will be the "one" that breaks down that rule and makes us just gotta get
together with them.
NOT!!! There are more than enough single horny men out there, and if we need one
we will find one for ourselves- we think we should have no trouble in that dept. If you care to send
us your photos; X or G-rated is fine with us as long as it is a facial shot.
Replies without photos
get read last (if at all). Please take a moment to send a thoughtful note about yourselves and what
you are looking for and we'll guarantee a response (even if it is to say no thanks).
We've taken the
time to write a comprehensive profile and fill out the topics section, if you're really interested,
we expect you to do the same.
We have found that requesting a detailed response cuts down on the phonies
and imposters that seem to permeate this site. Real people are willing to expend the effort to meet.
Our usual modus operandi is to meet for drinks and spend some no pressure time getting to know each
other with no expectations except to break the ice.
Then hopefully we can all agree if we want to take
it somewhere else for adult fun and frolic, or if we should go our separate ways. If this interests
you, let's get in contact and we can take this to the next level.
Thanks for taking the time to read
our profile. Vidor swingers Couples and females for great friendships and wild times. The woman
need not be bi, but it is certainly a plus.
We are looking for REAL people, not pic collectors or people
not willing to get together. We will NOT endlessly email, or send pics without receiving them in return.
If you are not sure you want to be in the lifestyle, or are just "hoping" your significant other will
go along with it, we are not the couple to contact.
We are a truly sensual, passionate couple who like
to share each other with other attractive, and sensual people. She is very bi, so ladies, prepare yourselves
if that is what you enjoy! We are a full swap couple, and WILL NOT swing separately.
If you are looking
for a fun, erotic, for real couple who is very attractive, and willing to fulfill your fantasies, you
have found them.
NO SINGLE MALES! DON"T BOTHER EMAILING!YOU WILL NOT RECEIVE A REPLY!!!!!!!